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Alex
9 Posts (-1), 19 Cmts (+3)
I saw a photo that JA Lifestyles uses on his Tinder profile where he photoshopped himself performing as a DJ. Inspired by this, as I'm a musician, I want to create a photoshop photo of myself performing on a concert stage. One of those cool looking action photos with the moody concert stage lighting.
I'm into photography, I can take self-portraits so I don't mind getting whatever other necessary gear. I looked at green-screen kits on Amazon, and most are very affordable.
I know I can search tutorials on YouTube, but was wondering if you had any tips for this process especially when it comes to dating sites.
If this is outside of your knowledge, then thank you anyway!
Personally, I would just find someone with good reviews on Fiveer and send them the photos you want photo-shopped. This will save you a lot of annoying work.
However, I will say it can be a bit tricky to make these kinds of pics look realistic. A better bet might be finding a musician who looks like you and where the picture is zoomed out or from the back.
2 Posts (+0), 9 Cmts (+3)
Do you have any rules/general guidelines in regard to how quickly you respond to a woman's tinder message?
Generally, the rule is that you want to more or less match a girl's response time. So, if she is taking 20 minutes between messages you don't want to be responding every minute.
Personally, I just respond to girls when I check my phone. I don't really worry about the time in between messages. One thing, I will sometimes do is ignore a girl's message for few hours to see if she double text.
2 Posts (+0), 9 Cmts (+3)
How do you follow up on a night game number? Also, when do you text? I assume the following afternoon
I often do short weekend city breaks in Europe (Friday - Sunday). How many days in advance would you recommend changing your Tinder location to the city I’ll be visiting and how many dates would you aim to setup, assuming that some may flake?
Tinder obstacles:
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In the beginning after you send the first text, what are your best ways to get her to invest more when she only replies with the dreaded 1 word reply? Do you think the odds are high that if her first reply to you is just 1 word, they're the time waster type? I noticed some girls I match with, would respond to my opener with "No." and then I've replied with "Already lying to me aren't you?" or an even lower investment "Really?" and never get a reply after that. Do you ever get results from girls like this and what do you do from your experience to get her to invest more after a 1 word response?
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For girls who ignore your first message, you've said that you usually follow up with "Imagine you swiped right on your future lover and ignored his first message" I used this a few times and one girl actually replied with "Haha your right, let me go find who that is now." What would you say to this?
- This is a lengthy topic, but basically investment comes from two things mainly. First, the girl thinking you are " attractive" . This is why good looking guys typically get better responses with the same level of text game . However, you can diffidently raise her perception of you with some subtle DHVs. The second part comes from being exciting and engaging. Even if she thinks you are attractive if you message her boring cor cliche shit you will get shorter, less invested answers.
So for instance, if a girl give you a short one word answer you can write something like "Love the enthusiasm ". This is a pretty engaging text since it calls out her behavior and that is not something that a lot of guys would do. This could lead to her explaining herself and investing a lot more into the conversation ( but, typically only if she finds you attractive and thus cares what you think of her). Also, a key component is how you phrase questions. Avoid "Yes" or "No" questions and try to ask open ended ones " What are you looking for on here " instead of " Are you looking for fun on here ". - " No need, I'm sure I can squeeze you in"
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How do you make a new tinder to reset your elo? Ive researched and it seems if you simply delete your old account and redownload with the same info they will be able to link your two accounts and carry over your elo score.
Also, would the reset process be the same for hinge and bumble?
5 Posts (+16), 12 Cmts (+5)
Although people generally advise against gaming in workplace/classroom environment, I remember a while back you used to help Christian Kyle who's a personal trainer bang one of his female clients. These days I'm spending the majority of my days in workplace/classroom so I figured I might as well game the girls there. What are some of the precautions you'd take and how would you modify your approach when gaming girls in workplace/classroom environment? Thank you.
Haha, good memory! A big part of it depends on what kind of job you have and how much you care about the possibility of repercussions ( i.e. is it a temp job or a company where you want to raise in the corporate ladder) . Generally, I would play it more cool and not be overtly sexual. Build a good vibe with the girl that you like then, suggest that the two of you should go out for drinks sometimes soon and grab her number. You can be a bit flirty over text, but don't be overtly sexual. Just get her out where the two of you outside the work than you can escalate in person.
Any tips on a first text to a girl that has medium interest in you? In a situation where you had a solid interaction and got the #, but didn't necessarily feel high interst from her.
How to follow up on Tinder in this situation:
Me: "Mallory you look like you may be really sweet, or a total troublemaker"
Her: *likes my message
"lmaooo i get that a lot and idk why! i think i look innocent af :)"
Me: "True but the ones that look the most innocent are actually the most trouble smirky emoji"
She hasn't responded and it's been 5 days... how should I proceed?

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What is your best advice about spiking emotions during night game? I do well with logical conversation but I could use advice about to create more fun/emotional convo.
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There is definitely many ways you can go about accomplishing this . Personally, I do it by being very unfiltered . If a raunchy comment or joke floats through my mind, I will say it, where as most people won't . This makes a conversion with me by default a lot more exciting on average . Another big thing I would utilize is tension. Once you learn how to do it correctly, it can be very powerful. So, right from the start I will maintain very strong eye contact . Then, throughout the conversation, if the girl says something that I want her to question , I will leave few seconds of silence before replying, Those few silent seconds can create very strong tension. The key though, is to not create more tension then she can handle at any given moment. Basically, pressure on and pressure off. Few seconds of intense silence, followed up by a smirk and a little humor .