So I’m having this seemingly normal conversation with this girl. But afterwards of calling her a brat, she blocks me and so I hit her up on my spam 3 days later. She then hits me with the i dont like the way you play. What’s the best possible response here. Is it a genuine concern or is it something else? More Context: We used to be old friends that dated, it ended in a bad note. However, this was a year ago.
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A year ago is pretty recent when it comes to these things, and considering that they ended on a bad note, it's no surprise that she's defensive and not receptive to you at all. I don't know what makes you think that your common, sour past wouldn't affect your interactions with her. I wouldn't spend more time or energy on this one if I was you.
It'd be a different story if you guys had this crazy sexual chemistry and things ended because one of you moved to another state or something completely beyond both of ya'lls control had driven you apart. It's usually in those scenarios when you can rekindle old flames.
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I guess it’s because I’m under the impression that it’s possible to game anyone. With the right words.
That’s what I seek in all this of course. Given whatever the situation. But her being defensive and non receptive is definitely an issue. Thank you.
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I get you. I love the fact that you're applying what you've been learning with this girl, but like Trevor mentioned in an earlier comment, it probably gives off a bit of a weird energy to her given that these are the types of texts you'd send to a girl you've "cold approached" through Tinder. Maybe if you share with more detail about this girl, the kind of stuff that she likes, and the positive memories and / or bonds that you two share or shared in the past before things went bad we may be able to help you find the right themes to talk about.
I'd back off from her for a bit. Also focus on getting numbers from other girls so you're not investing all your thoughts and energy into this one.