So I’m having this seemingly normal conversation with this girl. But afterwards of calling her a brat, she blocks me and so I hit her up on my spam 3 days later. She then hits me with the i dont like the way you play. What’s the best possible response here. Is it a genuine concern or is it something else? More Context: We used to be old friends that dated, it ended in a bad note. However, this was a year ago.
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You’re right, I shouldve thought of that lol. It does seem pretty reactive of me. Yes I have, she was an old friend of mine that I’ve once dated, but it ended in a bad note. This was a year ago, so I highly doubt it’d affect whatever is going on now.
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Hmm I think it would effect what's going on. I also think it makes your texting seem more gamey. It sounded to me like you had never met her, especially with the cali girl comments, which could explain why she was more annoyed by that than a random girl.
But it also makes me think this is more salvageable since you have history. My instinct is to apologize somehow. Maybe say "sorry i had a long week" plus something else. I would wait for advice from more experienced people though.
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That makes sense, these types of situations are more complicated than if it were a girl I hadn’t met. To give a bit of context about myself, I’m 19 years old and am trying to understand game at a young age, so I appreciate your help.
Apologizing could be the right path, but I want it to be last resort. I’ll wait for the big leagues.
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A year ago is pretty recent when it comes to these things, and considering that they ended on a bad note, it's no surprise that she's defensive and not receptive to you at all. I don't know what makes you think that your common, sour past wouldn't affect your interactions with her. I wouldn't spend more time or energy on this one if I was you.
It'd be a different story if you guys had this crazy sexual chemistry and things ended because one of you moved to another state or something completely beyond both of ya'lls control had driven you apart. It's usually in those scenarios when you can rekindle old flames.
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I guess it’s because I’m under the impression that it’s possible to game anyone. With the right words.
That’s what I seek in all this of course. Given whatever the situation. But her being defensive and non receptive is definitely an issue. Thank you.