Searching the forums for a jaw-dropping response I remember one of the guys posting on here (think it was Alex or Indian PE). Something along the lines of, "You're use to dating beta guys who are little bitches and are terrible at satisfying you. What you really want is a guy who will dominate you... etc, etc." Any one help me out and remind me of the context? I think it would work well with a girl I've been flaked on recently after some good sexts back and forth.
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I have a question about this.
I always thought that putting down other people is a low value trait? So if you’re saying bad things about other guys like “You are used to dating boys who are little pussies” kinda make you seem shallow?
When I met a girl who had a BF, I always said good things about him like “He’s so cool, he’s amazing, he seems like the perfect guy” so then she kinda creates her own negativity in her mind where she’s like “wait, no he’s not.. i don’t like this about him, etc” but I’m pretty sure if I said something like “He seems like a beta pussy who you walk all over” she would definitely stand up for him.
Is there another way to get the point across without putting others down?
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Gotta keep in mind it’s not just one person I’m putting down but a whole group. If I am just trying to put down one person, I will mock them and be sarcastic “yea, he sounds reallll cool” that sorta thing
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Key difference in what Alex's says on this video is a generalization about all the guys she's dated previously, not one specific person.
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This yes. It’s a truism that applies to pretty much every bratty girl
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I can understand not being mean, but why were you complimenting her BF so much haha? She probably thinks you want to bang him
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Because saying he’s so perfect for her and building him up as this perfect guy she will backwards rationalize the problems she has with him and let her guard down compared to if you say bad things about him it only makes her feel like she has to defend him