She didn’t say no, she said “haha”. I’d have said something like “so do you like wine.” Or continued to try to vibe. However weren’t you going to meet her Wednesday? And now you’re trying to meet her earlier? Another error I saw is asking Friday (like 5 days in advance) whether y’all are on for Wednesday, that’s like a 1-2 days before text. If you text her almost a week before it should be a text offering value or vibing (or nothing at all). What are you trying to accomplish exactly? Didn’t she say twice she was available Wednesday? Then she said she’s trying to figure out if she’s going to hang out with her friend? I think you should have called that out on the phone because now you’re stuck with her flakiness. I wouldn’t text her for like a day, re open, ask her how her day was, try to flirt briefly, then confirm for Wednesday again. But shit man it seems complicated good luck.