Heey guys, i meet this girl 2 Monthes ago on feeld and we had a date and then we hooked up sex was really great and she came 2 times. after we hooked up, she asked for my nummber and told me lets meet again . I texted her after 2 days and told her lets meet next week, she told me she is busy. I texted her week after she told me she would love to meet but she had corona . I wated 3 weeks and texted her, she replyied that in the quarantine she lost the spark and didnot feel the urgent to meet . i thought WTF then why did she asked for my nummber. i told her no problem and it can happen and wish you happy life . That was 2 Monthes ago , i thought to give her space . I want to reconnect with her so what do you think guys , what should i tell her . she is 38 and me 26
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I'd use a callback to your first date. Think of something she said and say you were thinking about it. For example if she said she liked watching football I'd say something like "Was just thinking about the sexy football girl"
I disagree with @Bird of Hermes I dont think you look needy at all especially after 2 months. Also It is possible to hold your frame while still pursuing but it doesnt make any sense to just not try.
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Me: Hey😊 , how are you and how were the last summer days ?
Her: Good. Why the renewed contact ?
Me: I was yesterday in the attic( the Bar we meet the first time) and I remembered our meeting and how we had fun and wanted to say after a long time what's up 😁
Cannot I 😂?
Her : Just surprised me. I had said yes that I'm not interested in a reunion. Changes also the "long time" nothing 😉
She text me within 15-20 min on every message, is that a good sign ?
(It maybe be weird but I translated it from German😂)
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I dont understand her last message. Maybe it got lost in translation. Is she saying she isnt interested in meeting with you again?