Conversation re-engagement and soft negs

Hi, I would like to know how to re-engage conversations. I haven't seen a chapter about this in the guide given here about how to really re-engage conversation. I'd like to have some a referral to it if I was wrong and there is something related to it. another thing is that sometimes I feel like that the girl is being a bitter or gaming me and I feel like I should neg her back and from what I've seen on this guidebook here. the guy never gets shit from girls. what is your opinion about begging back or comebacks about girl's being too much cocky? I have believed that she should be "on the ground" and submissive and not trying to resist. I define anything aside from being submissive to me as defiance. please don't prove me wrong. if you can just show me some examples of how you handle defiance from a girl or re-engage conversations, from cases when is yet not attracted and invested, not like when she's already into the guy like in the presented cases in the guidebook here. Thank you.