So I met up with this girl last week and we had been talking for 2 weeks prior. She seemed completely normal in texting. I went on a date at a cafe near where I live and after 5 minutes I could tell she wasn’t normal. She was only giving short answers when I asked her questions and sometimes she wouldn’t even answer my questions and would just stare at me and say nothing. She’s pretty physically attractive though half Korean half white with a slim body. She did reply to my text after the date and I asked her if she liked wine and she said yes. I’m trying to set up the second date at my place with something like “let’s split a bottle of wine at my new apartment and watch a movie. I’ve got popcorns ready :) do you prefer red or white?” but there’s clearly some safety concerns with this girl full of red flags. What’s your expert opinion on this situation?