Hi All, I've been doing cold approach for a while now and so every now and then, a couple of questions pop into my head. Rather than trying to figure out the answer solo, I'd rather ask the community and see if I can get any feedback. Here are the questions I have lingering right now. I'll type up my answers at the bottom to see if I'm on the right track, where applicable. 1) How often does an attractive woman make eye contact with you before you open? (How often do you catch one checking you out?) 2) How often does any woman (that doesn't work there) open you during night game? (1 woman/night...) 3) I want to get your thoughts on this new mentality I've adopted where if I get a success, I don't feel super excited about it and if I get a rejection, it rolls off me like nothing happened. 4) When going for the number close, do you guys like to schedule the date right then and there? It always feels forced to me. 5) Any strategy for when I get isolation from the friends, but the friends come back to pull her away? (ex. I take her to the bar and then after 5 minutes, the friends say "WE NEED YOU!" and pull her away) 6) Any advice on when to eject the set? 7) Honestly, this one is so important. Any advice how to dance at the club? 1a) I would say I get hard eye-contact maybe 2 to 3 times a night. When I open those woman, I still get blown out maybe 50% of the time. 2a) I would say I get opened by a ugly woman maybe 1-2 times a night. I end the interaction quick by saying "I need to find my friends. Have a good night" 3a) Obviously, it didn't seem healthy when I typed it up. But I will say, it's very relieving when you don't have any expectation and when you don't connect any emotion to the outcome. Ideally I would celebrate the win and let the failure roll off, but at this point in my game, I had enough wins to where I don't really feel the high anymore 4a) I've been trying it. and I've been trying to make it smooth. Immediately saying "Are you free tomorrow? Let's get brunch" But I still want to hear your opinons 5a) This one I say "Oh, you found us!" but the friends are always like "WE have to go BYE!" and I can sometimes number close the target 6a) If its early in the night, go ahead and eject if its not going well. If its in the middle, try to make it go well 4 times(ex. plow the conversation again 4x), if it's late, plow 4 times till she says good night 7a) I've made friends with a few people that can dance, and they have this idea where you keep your upper body locked in a position and you move your hips. Sounds robotic but I've seen them use it and pull

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Wow! Thank you for the response man. I really liked the part where you emphasize building an emotional connection over just playing the result. I like that a lot because I've lost interest in just casual sex but I wouldn't mind hooking up with a girl I'm genuinely emotional drawn to.

Thank you again for the reply

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Yeah man, for me, I've had a couple instances of casual hookup sex where it was more of a "I find you attractive and you find me attractive" hookup, and after everything was said and done I just didn't feel good about it. When you actually form a genuine interest in a woman and connect with her, you will enjoy sex and everything else 10x more than just the average, typical hookup.

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