How do you guys transition to your apartments from the date and do you always go for it or sometimes wait until the second or third date?
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How do you guys transition to your apartments from the date and do you always go for it or sometimes wait until the second or third date?
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generally, what i do is build a lot of sexual tension at the venue. Then i will say "let's go somewhere else" and just straight up lead her to my place. 3/4 of the time the girl doesnt know that we are going back to my place until we get there. SOmetimes i tell them if they are hesitant i will try to remove all of the pressure and tell them we are just going to have a drink no funny business. The key is not to make a big deal out of it. Because if you do then the girl will be much less likely to come back with you.
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that sounds like a great thing to say when a girl doesnt want to come to your place the first time... "we are just going to have a drink, no funny business".. pretty disarming then when she gets there you can do you normal routine or whatever... what do you think? or would this be setting expectations too low but think its no different than say no expectations... but no expectations might be better than saying no funny business... let me know
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it honestly makes no difference. No chick is actually going to take that line literally.