Matched with a hot chick mid 30s. Couple weeks ago she sent 2 fairly invested messages, then dropped off. I kept sending value offering messages every 5-7 days, so prob 3 in a row with no response. Today, I noticed all her pics are selfies so I send that one (post title one). She promptly Unmatches me. It got a reaction, anyway lol
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Interesting. Its not really fair as she was already ignoring like 3 of ur messages and might have just thought "ugh this guy wont stop texting me, imma just unmatch"
But tbh i never liked the selfie collection opener, even if girl responded it would always be just "haha thanks" so then what do i say to that? its almost like we're back at the start
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Yeah possibly. But after the all-positive stuff, it functions like a neg. It is basically calling a girl out that she's lazy and entitled with her shitty quality photos, even if she's hot. 99 outta 100 guys can't get away with that. Girls will take the positive attention for as long as the dude is doling it out, that's my take away.
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Good point even tho she had no intentions of going out, she didnt mind the positive attention but as soon as you negged her a bit, she unmatched. Older girls are far more sensitive then younger ones imo. 5 years ago i was matching with 18-24 yr olds and they were mostly very chill, now its 26-32 and majority are sensitive AF