Do I need to say something else after this text like we should get together or something or just leave it at this ? Cause I keep getting ghosted right after it gets to this text
it would kind of depend on the context but something along the lines of
"hey i can tell you're not interested which is totally cool i just wanted to ask for my own self development if there was anything i said or did that turned you off. please be brutally honest you won't hurt my feelings :) "
I saw you say that you never close the girl after sending this message. If she gives you an objection, why can’t you reframe but like if it’s a non-sexual objection, why can’t you say something that can slowly nudge your way back in?
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it would kind of depend on the context but something along the lines of
"hey i can tell you're not interested which is totally cool i just wanted to ask for my own self development if there was anything i said or did that turned you off. please be brutally honest you won't hurt my feelings :) "
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I saw you say that you never close the girl after sending this message. If she gives you an objection, why can’t you reframe but like if it’s a non-sexual objection, why can’t you say something that can slowly nudge your way back in?
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you can try. But at that point the girl has clearly made up her mind and you're prob not gonna change that over text