SEE COMMENT Which is best in the next few hours: Love the enthusiasm Or not... She said “I’ll let you know tonight” over the phone (5mins call) deciding if her & her friend had something planned for Wednesday (day of date). I gave this excuse for my abnormal job to flake on her if she didn’t tell me by midnight since I was on a 4hr break during the call. I haven’t nexted her yet because she still calls me by the unique nickname she gave me on our 1st date. Here’s how we got here: https://forums.playingfire.com/posts/home-date-as-2nd-date-concern ANY & ALL feedback from any-fucking-body is appreciated.
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That’s good you waited and forced the double text. The “you don’t sound too confident” is a great idea, it seems she needs to be lightly called out. Was the date solid?
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The plans for the 2nd date were up in the air which is why I got her on the phone. My next move will be
“That’s better. Pick a day” or “That’s better. What evenings are you free to do so”
Trying to play around with the whole reward/punish thing. I think she’s just concerned about going home “too soon”. I’m 28 & she’s 34
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