Hey so this is going to be a bit of a fucked up post but my lay count is approaching 300-500ish? ..and most have come from online game. I didn't keep track but there are weeks where I will bang like 6 new girls in 7 days or 7 girls in 5 days and go on rampages. I've had over 100 3 somes.. 3 new chicks in one day from Tinder. .and while that sounds fun and it is... I'd say I'm also very emotionally fucked up.. and it's kind of making it worse I'm currently dating a chick who's bi and we've had 3 somes.. but anytime she complains or has a serious issue with me I don't even want to deal with it.. Like I care about her but I'm stuck in this frame of "I'm not putting up with this BS" and honestly I'm probably only getting the BS because i'm "running" my "boyfriend" "game" wrong.. Either way ..to the advanced guys.. when you have options do you ever feel like you don't even want to hear anything negative or critical from these chicks? Like thinking to yourself as she's complaining.. " bitch don't you know how easily I can replace you.. I'm not going to cater to your negativity".. shit like that? It sounds fucked up as I'm typing it.. but I'm trying to be as honest as possible and get genuine feedback.. How do you draw the line between being a good human being vs not "rewarding negative behavior" .. ie she's mad about some BS and you talking to her is like a reward ... like oh she threw a fit and got attention .. I mean it'd be dope to like care about somebody and build a good healthy emotionally connected relationship long term but I legit don't want to end up like those dudes who's chicks yell at them and they just take it.. Again after a few hundred chicks.. I'm noticing a pattern.. well two patterns... The common denominator is me.. so i'm causing this behavior in some cases I'm sure. It's starting to seem like in order to have a GF and not just rail tons of chicks.. you gotta deal with a lot of emotional hysterics and negative bullshit. Can anyone relate to women feeling "replaceable"? Anybody find a solution to this? I've literally got multiple girls cussing at me or "not talking to me" playing the who's frame is stronger and "who will crack first and text" frame on Snapchat right now.. ..my ex FWB is also no longer "able" to see me because I post too many pics with other women and didn't post a pic of her one time and she doesn't want to get hurt.. keep in mind we've 3 wayed together and she's asked me if Ive ever been curious about swing clubs.. but she called me heartless and emotionless .. I'm like yo .. you asked me to be swingers.. and we never talked about being exclusive.. wtf are you talking about? You know what I'm saying? It seems like drama to see if Im a pussy or something and my response is like GTFO of here w that Are these like "reverse-shit tests" meaning instead of testing my congruence to being an icy playing they're testing me for emotions? Like im supposed to say no baby I dont want to have 3 ways any more.. so they can see I'm emotionally attached? Maybe I'm cuddling and going on actual dates too much and they're getting mixed signals? The girl I'm currently seeing like literally ASKS me to find us girls ..and she's mad because my posts on "snap and ig seem like I want attention and its unattractive" and Im like go be unattracted then .. hit me up when you're back to being the girl who's head over hells in love with me and tells me how much she loves me everyday because I'm the best I'd love to be healthy w these chicks but I also don't want to hear sad bullshit and complaints about my behavior all day when theres plenty about them i could bring up but i chose not to Especially when banging 18-22 year old hotties..todays culture promoting "having anxiety" ..this shit can get messy when being being positive and focusing on good things gets "re-framed" as you don't care Anyway haha I'm fucking lost guys .. any constructive feedback would be appreciated. TDLR: I've banged a lot of chicks and I feel torn between replacing them constantly or listening to them complain about their anxiety or "feelings" i.e. shit they're imagining ..catering to their bullshit ..and calling that a relationship. Advice?
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I've been in eastern europe for the last year or so, because honestly, I find them the most attractive per 100 girls, compared to other ethnicities (whether it's latina, asian, black, germanic, italian, arabic, etc etc).
About 60% of the girls that I've been with in Eastern europe have kissed a girl, been with a girl, or want to sleep with a girl/3some.
But they can be a pain in the ass due to a large percentage of them being more conservative/traditional.
I've never been a big fan of gaming in the US because of the potential cost investments and potential superiority complexes and level of competition, but I've also never gamed in the US.
What are your thoughts of gaming in the US based on states (i.e. what are the differences between LA girls, vs. georgia girls, vs hawaii girls, vs so on.)?
Where, outside of the US, have you gamed?
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i haven't gamed much outside of USA.. In US Ive noticed theres almost two "rule sets" and this may be women in general not just US women.. but the more casual and light hearted i keep it .. nothing is a big deal.. just sex all good.. whatever happens happens.. not looking for anything serious.. then I'm able to smash 1st night no problem.. zero investment...
BUT the second i start talking to a girl about anything other than meeting to see how we click.. like anything remotely boyfriendy or relationship related like I'm open to that at all.. then they immediately go into "no hookups" mode .. and its like you can still get same day lay but its a lot more hoops and shit tests ...and a lot of the time they dont want to hookup first night..
Best thing that has worked for me.. be fuckboy.. smash first night.. go into comfort building after hookup.. give them space.. make them reach out to me.. then decide if i want to date or not from there..