Your trouble shooting is understanding that she has 400+ matches, plus another 400 in her premium waiting to hit her up.

Most of the dudes hit her up with "let's go for drink, dinner, some sexual compliment, some other compliment, etc etc".

You are a droplet in a sea of thirsty dudes on that app.

There is no solution, other than to copy and paste templates, over and over, until something sticks. There is no legit formula.

For every one date that you manage to get out, you will go through 30-100 ghosts/flakes/time wasters.

The only scientifically proven solution? Get amazing pix, and have a set copy/paste formula that you use unemotionally like a robot.

Good luck.