im generally more of a casual dater. not necessarily fuck dates, but usually sex within first date or 2. for me text is a means to get the girl out - occasional flirting/banter, but we both have lives and texting is sparse quarantine, however, has been interesting. some casual crib meetups, sure. but more noteworthy are 2 particular girls ive been texting nonstop for about 2 weeks now. initially I tried to keep texting to a minimum as I work to a close, but they kept reopening me. now I just go along w it. these are the types of texts you exchange w a gf type - 'whatcha up to' texts, nudes every night, super intimate topics you NEVER share w strangers, the occasional long phone call, etc. one girl of the 2 im particularly interested in, but was exposed to a person who tested pos for corona 1week ago. she wants to take another week to make sure she's ok before meeting up. understandable. lives w grandparents and has self quarantined. clingy type at start but loosening up now. the whole 'all day texting' thing w a stranger is a bit new to me. its been enjoyable so far, but occasionally vibe goes cold a bit. I just go w the flow. im not worried I 'wont have anything to talk about' on our date. and if the vibe dies before then, so be it. but whats the protocol here? do I mostly let the girl dictate when we talk? do I ever open her? are these type of texting relationships sustainable? or do they just die out whats the path forward here? bit diff topic but worth discussing

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Personally, I actually never do the excessive texting thing with chicks. That was an issue with my last gf who thought that my lack of texts every 30 min meant I didn’t care about her. I’ll sometimes just let a text sit for a few hours before replying. Also, I generally keep the convo pretty relevant to mutual interests. For example if a girl was in one of my videos I’ll give her updates about how it’s doing and talk about the next one. I’ll crack jokes a lot too. Hopefully this helps
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My texts with a girl I like who I’ve been seeing casually
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