background: we met up at a bar, vibed pretty well immediately -> went back to my place, had sex for multiple rounds; so overall great time i'd say However, after she didn't seem to invested or too eager to meet up again. text exchange after date: her: Arrived home safely :) me: glad to hear That was (fire emojis) her:Yes it was (fire emojis) Following day: (29th Dec) me: Let me know, when you are free again ;) her: I will :) 1st Jan: me: Happy New Year girl her: Thank you, you too :) (then some quick blabla what did you do for new years etc) 3Jan me: hola guapa, hope your new year start went well, what's your schedule like this week? 4thJan: her: Hey yes it did, and yours? Work started again, so rather bad. -Me asking her regarding her schedule was perhaps a bit too eager but I just wanted to plan my dates this week. -Maybe I'm overanalyzing but somehow my gut feeling tells me that there isn't too much interest on her part? -Should I just let it be for now and hit her up next weekend or so?
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update: kept it cool just exchanged few texts here and there.
then asked her whether she was free this weekend,
her reply: "actually yes, but I'm currently not in the mood for sex🙈 "
not sure how to go from there, maybe some other fuckbuddy or ex-bf situation.
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"We'll just hold hands instead then" and try meeting her up anyway
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Honestly this happened to me recently, I browsed the forums and I am wondering if it is sort of a guilt thing. Most dudes are chodes, so a lot of the less experienced women don't really expect to sleep with a guy on the first night. Then after a few days go by they get this sort of guilt/slutty feeling. Idk, notice how she says she's "not in the mood for sex". Like she still wants to see you, but doesn't want it to seem like you're just going to bang. That would make me guess she felt kind of bad after the first time. I wouldn't bring this up over text, just ask her about it next time you see her in person.