First date was escalated and she liked how I held strong eye contact Planning for 2nd date She recently had doctor's appt so I built off that Me: You're also due to my eye appointment. So how about a date sometime? Me: Don't think too hard (she replied this after 2 days and I never had to re-engage prior to this) Her: eye appt. Yes (winky face). that too Should I go for "whats your schedule like" or “are you always this difficult to plan 2nd date” cause its the 4th time i m asking for the date
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Hmm, maybe it's not a lost cause then. If she reached out to you first at all during the time you were gone that's also a good sign.
I would go with the "what's your schedule like then" if she's compliant and contributes positvely, then move towards a date.
However, if she avoiding the date or acting flakey, just hit her with one of the classics:
"Look if you're not into this, just let me know and I can stop trying"
"Look, I’m busy too but I’m sure we could both find a few hours if we actually wanted to"
"Take care, your lack of respect for my time is a turn off"
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Thanks man! I agree. the convo still dragging along but very slowly towards a date. luckily haven't had to use the takeaways so far but won't be surprised if I have bring these bad boys out