when she gives 1 word replies and its going no where, can you take a look at the screenshots and see what I did wrong? when she isnt giving any investment through banter, should I switch to being sexual or would that just cause her to unmatch me? these 2 screenshots took place over a span of 7 days, so the convo wasnt flowing well, she took long to reply and then i double texted a few days later
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Thanks for that. I'm just curious how can I recover from this in the future and what could I have said instead for this texting sequence to have been Optimal so I don't make the same mistake next time? Because I seem to run into a lot of girls like this and I don't want to believe that they are all time wasters.
I know that if the girl is a hot babe she probably has hundreds of matches, so I want to change what I did so I don't come off weird again. For this one what would you have recommended I said instead to not come across as a weirdo instead of doing the 'your eyes tell me everything' cold read?
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I'm not the biggest fan of that opener, because it comes off very cliche, while making an attempt to feel genuine. That being said, it was much less the opener and much more so the follow up. A much better follow up would have been "That you have a thing for handsome guys named Jon". From there, it would have been much easier to slowly transition it. She might have responded with "lol. Good guess" and you could have said "Yes, Around (insert your age) years old with a weakness for a nice booty". You get the picture
In terms of saving this now "Did you not read my profile?"