Summary Matched on hinge. Convo was fine. Got her number set the meet but then she got sick the day of our date. Then she went back to the US for Xmas. Had to keep the convo warm until then. Over all it was pretty easy. Dificulties Initial shit tests Keeping the convo warm Staying the course Take aways Passing shit tests is not as hard as it seems. In this case, her's were trying to get me to qualify.So I just disagree & amplify then flip it on her. Don't agree to bad logistics. She offered to meet the day after she canceled near her. But I could tell she was into me so I decided to wait several weeks rather than accept bad logistics Don't shoot yourself in the foot She asks if we should meet by the center or at my place. Just confidently say "my place" without giving an explanation. if she needs it she will give resistance Building comfort during the date even if the girl is really into you otherwise you risk LMR. Wand vibrators are amazing It has saved my ass many times. This time it allowed me to give her several additional orgasms. The Date I pick her up at the bus stop & we walk back to my place. Start by giving her her a hug & two kisses (in the spanish way) First thing she says to me is "I mean, you are so attractive" so I know its a done deal. -I stick out my arm & lead her into walking arm in arm with me. We talk about her day & mine We get to my place I take off my shoes & instruct her to do the same. (This is so they aren't a problem later) Going for the kiss She says something I like, I go for a hug. Our faces get quite close & she "melts" so I know its safe. I kiss her once then inmediately pull away & say ill go get the wine. Rest is simple We sit on the couch & talk about shit. When she says something I like I give her a kiss or hug as a reward. We talk for about 1h. She actually talks about a few dificult topics which allows me to talk about some hardships I have had in the past (this builds deep connection). Then I start making out with her then go from there The Sex I always eat a girl out the first time. This girl takes a while to cum, but when she does she cums over and over. So she is already spent. I fuck her for a while, take out the wand, fuck her with it & she cums again like mad. Ending Notes Afterwards she would tell me she was decided not to sleep with me on this date. So I am assuming she would have given LMR if I hadn't taken my time & allowed for comfort to build. edit: forgot to mention I seeded the second date after we had sex by asking if she watched TV & suggesting we watch something next time.