When she writes "Red wine" "Only" is she trying subtly to be just a small micro piece of a brat ? Should I address something ? Or just move things foreward ? Seems to fast no ? I should screen her more right ? "Let's split a bottle of red wine on my romatic solarium then" And my solarium is far from romantic,its in front of my backyard ,in front of my neighboors, they could easily eavesdrop...honestly I don't care Should I go somewhere else with this