Been talking to this baddie since yesterday and today out the blue she asked to meet. Problem was I was already with a different girl. But I don't want to lose my shot with this one... She hasn't replied after I said raincheck... What's the move boys? Hit her up again tomorrow? Should I be apologetic? Give it a few days? Could she be mad? Someone, how do I move forward with her???

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Thanks for the feedback gentlemen. No need to do anything, she just engaged with me again and we facetimed for a bit. I never even heard the term double text until I saw one of Alex’s videos saying how it’s not something you want to do. But it’s my texting style, I don’t do walls of text like I’ve seen others do. I break up my text the way I would speak naturally, and really helps drive some comedic timing. I can see double text looking bad if they are like an hour apart from each other. But when I’m texting in real time, it’s just how I do it(see sample text with one of my boys).... Would be a tough habit to break if it really is that much of a detriment.
Oh and the babe part is an inside joke from the night before when we spoke on the phone. She was jokingly saying how I needed to delete Tinder because I was her man now and I’d reply with a “yeah sure thing babe, whatever you say”.
And I guess it did come off as high value that I didn’t drop what I was doing to see her... and no, wasn’t going to tell her about the other chick either. I’m not retarded lol

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I have the same habit while texting. But I try not to do it before the first date. My thoughts on double texting are:

  1. Before first date try to avoid it
  2. It's okay to do it after she does it
  3. It's okay to do it once in a while specially if she is showing lots of interest
  4. It's somewhat okay to do it if you are handling two threads at once (not the case here I would say)

Overall I don't think it's a huge deal breaker specially when the chick is into you but will make some lose interest

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Gotchu. Solid advice.

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