Hi, I'm a college student and I meet a lot of new girls on campus. They aren't direct cold approaches usually, oftentimes I meet them in the library. Situation 1: Met her in the library on Monday, we had a study date on Wednesday where I just flirted and spiked her emotions, but there was also a lot of logical conversation about school and careers. We have a date planned this Saturday evening at an arcade near my apartment. I don't really know what to text her in the meantime, should I do anything at all? Or just a confirmation text Friday before the date? Situation 2: Met her at a coffee shop on campus on Monday, and we planned a coffee date Friday night on campus. Logistics aren't the best because I live 20 min away from campus, however she lives on campus. Heavy IOIs from her, although no escalation because we were sitting in the middle of a coffee shop. Should I try to move the date to a coffee shop off campus and pick her up? Also, how can I improve the text? Situation 3: I went on a date yesterday with this girl to an ice cream shop then we walked around a mall. I made out with her for 15 secs or so before dropping her off at home. Was this the right kind of message to send afterwards?(Approx 12 hours after). We are meeting Thursday and most likely having sex. Situation 4(no picture): Today I met a girl at a fast food joint on campus. I asked if I could sit at her booth and she said sure. We talked for 20 mins and I did good I think, but she wasn't hooking too much. We set up a potential date to study together tomorrow on campus. Any advice on what to text? I want to communicate my intent but not come on too strong, because I'll probably see her again.

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First, I gotta ask why are you doing dates at the coffee shop or mall. Why not go to a bar?
Situation 1: You can just send her a Ryan gosling meme the day before. Ask how her day is going after she responds. Then confirm day of
Situation 2: Meet at a bar near your place
Situation 3: Yep, totally fine
Situation 4: I’d need to see the screenshots
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Thank you avilench for the feedback. For situation 4 I only texted her my name in front of her when I got her number. She didn't text anything back. I'm thinking "Yo so you free around noon to study tomorrow?" something like that. Also I don't drink because I'm not 21 and I'm turning 21 soon so I don't feel like waiting a month for an ID and only be able to use it for a little bit. Also most the girls are 18-20 and don't have fakes.
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Even if you can’t drink, don’t invite girls to study. That’s a very friend zonable activity. My preference in that situation would be to just invite them to house parties or just to drink at your place
If she didn’t text anything back you need to get the convo going again before you invite her out. Send her the Ryan gosling meme and see if she responds