I think ego is keeping a lot of guys from getting the results they could have. I was one of them and probably still am more often than I might think. At the moment I find myself balancing on the line of ego or simply preference. I’ve had my share of women I see as 7-10 and I live a pretty busy life running my business at the moment. So I notice I don’t feel like dealing with certain attitudes or “winning them over”. Not just because I don’t have the patience, but I enjoy sex waaaay better with someone who has the same vibe as I do. Combine that with having some 6’s and 7’s over who I’m just not sexually attracted to enough to feel the need to escalate. In my mind I’m like “Fuck this shit, I can use my time and energy way better” and I’ll just smoothly get them out the door. At the same time this completely sabotages my progress in game. On one hand I feel like I’m acting spoiled, on the other hand I don’t want to push things when I don’t enjoy it, because what’s the point of doing so right? Are there guys that can relate or see another pattern I’m not seeing? All advice is welcome!

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Yep I know exactly what you mean, there’s nothing wrong with walking away from chicks or situations that you don’t like. And doing everything possible just for the sake of improving your “skills” isn’t healthy or sustainable long term

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This answers my question too as well, Alex. I’ve noticed recently that having sex with girls I have no Chemistry/Connection, even if the girl is still hot. I sometimes force myself when I don’t even feel like having sex with that girl has been fucking up with my Inner Game. Can this very well be detrimental for myself long term? Thankyou, Alex.

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