Ego getting in the way

I think ego is keeping a lot of guys from getting the results they could have. I was one of them and probably still am more often than I might think. At the moment I find myself balancing on the line of ego or simply preference. I’ve had my share of women I see as 7-10 and I live a pretty busy life running my business at the moment. So I notice I don’t feel like dealing with certain attitudes or “winning them over”. Not just because I don’t have the patience, but I enjoy sex waaaay better with someone who has the same vibe as I do. Combine that with having some 6’s and 7’s over who I’m just not sexually attracted to enough to feel the need to escalate. In my mind I’m like “Fuck this shit, I can use my time and energy way better” and I’ll just smoothly get them out the door. At the same time this completely sabotages my progress in game. On one hand I feel like I’m acting spoiled, on the other hand I don’t want to push things when I don’t enjoy it, because what’s the point of doing so right? Are there guys that can relate or see another pattern I’m not seeing? All advice is welcome!