A few guys in the mastermind asked me to write this one up and I think there is a lot of value in the text screenshots. We had been flirting pretty heavily over text and then we FaceTimed where it got even more sexual. The plan was for me to go to her office for some late night porn style escapades, but then 10 minutes later she heavily backtracked over text and told me she’s “not that kinda girl” and that she “doesn’t do casual”. The reframing I did over text here is really solid. I was able to turn it around and set up a date for the following night at her place. Then the next day, I convinced her to come to my place instead. The date itself was surprisingly difficult as she talked pretty much non stop about her work, which made giving or escalating difficult. The turning point came when she was telling me about an ability she has to predict everything that’s going to happen so then I just went in for the makeout and said “bet you didn’t predict that” and she blushed and said no Then we danced for a while and I kept escalating. It was a lot of two steps forward & one step back. This went for a while until we were on the bed cuddling. She told me we were “just gonna cuddle” which is the universal sign for wait a few minutes and keep going. Ultimately, the cuddling led to grinding, which led to me whipping my dick out, which led to her fingering herself, which led to bang town