“ so I had some personal news about a family member and. I wasn’t as present as I should’ve been on the date and as a result, the girl said at the end of the date that she didn’t see a connection. I’m not saying the family member situation was the only reason I wasn’t as present.Should I be honest about what happened? How do I reframe and say look I wasn’t on my a game. Do you want to try this again? Alex, have you ever had a date where maybe you need sexualize enough and it was too platonic and you set up another day and turned it around. Do I recall something specific on the date?