I would absolutely mention a specific bar to meet for Friday night and mention 1 or 2 cool things about it. Then ask if that she would like to meet there, then no expectations on my end, then I'd like to meet you and see if we click.
Strongly agree with Life Skills. I don’t see the SCs of the last bit of convo prior to text messages but everything he said could still probably be re-confirmed.
Also, maybe pull back on the romantic/sexualizing until you meet her and she feels more comfortable.
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I would absolutely mention a specific bar to meet for Friday night and mention 1 or 2 cool things about it. Then ask if that she would like to meet there, then no expectations on my end, then I'd like to meet you and see if we click.
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Strongly agree with Life Skills. I don’t see the SCs of the last bit of convo prior to text messages but everything he said could still probably be re-confirmed.
Also, maybe pull back on the romantic/sexualizing until you meet her and she feels more comfortable.