Hi, I'm 2 hours south of Atlanta and I'm hoping my particular situation could be helped. I'm a 26 year old guy (5'10 170lb) and I wouldn't say I'm ugly or anything, but I'm kind of a loner introvert and never been in a relationship. I personally want a long term relationship with a nerdy girl that I find attractive and who's into one or more of my own interests (anime, gaming or drawing). I'm on the 3 main apps but I haven't had any matches yet. I do worry about what I would do if I do match with someone and they live 2 hours or more away. How do you deal with that kind of interaction to see if I like them and want to commit to that distance to meet them. Any advice for me would be great, whether it be about my mindset or how to achieve what I think I want.
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Let’s see a screenshot of your profile. And maybe post your profile pictures on here. Getting some feedback from us could guide you in the right direction.
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Hopefully it's not too bad. Perhaps I should put my art on an instagram and have it attached instead but I feel like that's one of my strengths.
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I think the profile could be a lot better but others will give you feedback there. When it comes to this game thing I think you should approach it differently tbh. I think many guys will disagree with me but if you really want pure wholesome love from a women to where you could see marriage down the line I'd take what you learn from alex then use it in a sort of "simp with boundaries frame". By that I mean to express love to a girl willingly and freely (simp) but still being teasing and not accepting of bad behavior (boundaries). I say this because you seem like a guy who needs a really good girl (rare in america imo) and in my experience they respond very well to this dichotomy and you can sift out the horribly vile and toxic women lol; given you do it right ofc. And you just come off as a guy who would enjoy that. I don't think you would enjoy "taming brats" or "gaming your way through her horribly toxic traits just to fuck". I'm just going off your looks and vibe tho lol. I'm saying you look like a nice guy ill keep it real. But you can be a nice guy IF you have boundaries, tease, sense of humor, maybe be clever too, etc etc.
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I think you could get rid of the 2nd photo. The hip pose makes you look too feminine.
The cowboy photo is actually cool in my opinion but shouldn’t be your first, should come 2nd or later.
The 3rd photo of your face is just not that great of a photo. I would replace it.
You should get a solid/more professional photo of yourself taken for your main photo. (Probably 2)
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In terms of what you described you’re looking for on dating apps, your bio seems specific and effective to that... so I don’t really see an issue. I would probably just delete the last sentence or change it to just say “open minded people is a plus” but definitely get rid of the smiley face.
I like the art, I think that goes either way honestly. I would lean more towards what you said and post that on an Instagram and just link that instead so the focus is your photos on your dating profile.