Long story short Messaging back and forth with a girl on instagram. Usually would take a day or two to response but no biggie since we are strangers and life. Talked for a few weeks and then asked her out for drinks and she agreed but in a few weeks because life. Last message was left on read so I waited a few days and gave her my number and told her to text me if she felt comfortable with exchanging numbers. Haven't heard from her in a week now and wonder if I should triple text (in another 3 or 4 days probably) to see if she is still interested in drinks or if I should just give up. Getting back into dating after a break up 2 1/2 years ago. Rusty as hell lol Thanks!
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I saw the videos after I started talking, so made some rookie mistakes. My 2nd to last message was left on read
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There is no good banter in your interaction btw. It just looks like two friends exchanging information about each other just to catch up.
"We'd look so cute together riding a two seated bike" when you spoke about bike riding
Anything that solidifies the we frame
Check out this guide: https://www.playingfire.com/4-rules-to-flirting-over-text-introducing-the-we-frame/
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When your second to last message was left on read, that was the worst possible time to send her your number. You should have at least re-engaged here. Making rookie mistakes is fine. But you've gotta learn quick from those mistakes and adapt
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So should I considered this dead in the water or is there a way to recover you think?