I have this big issue in not being able to kiss the girl on first date. I did physically escalate, gave her an hug on meeting sat next to her for the show. But I never made any moves on her, I think that was my biggest fault. How do you escalate with a stranger on a first date so you dont endup with texts like these. Not to mention, paying for almost everything on the date , since she wanna be friend now might as well ask her to split 🙄
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I agree. avoid comedy shows or anything you are spending more than 10-15$ on. Go for coffee or drinks. I learnt small/quieter coffee places where the seating is odd where you can move chairs around and sit really close works well.
I agree with Zoots Inc on more physical escalations. But Zoots, how do you push away physically and emotionally? need advice for myself. like what actions u do?
I guess a reply to this would be: No worries. I understand your position. You're just my type and it would be a shame not getting to know you more deeply (slight escalation). Tbh I am not looking for a text buddy or a girl "friend" and only looking for a romantic relationship. It was nice getting to know you. (feel free to improvise) lol
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But really there is a bunch... anything you don't like just saw ew or gross and push her away.... she's too loud... omg your so loud lol.. or if she shoots a dirty look or a bitchy look I just call her out on it and say.. look at those looks you give jeez so judgey. Mean girl.. idk I like fuckin with them a bunch and it seems to work🤷♂️lol
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Thanks man. Makes sense now
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I just kinda pick on her like I'm in 2nd grade really lol.. obviously don't do it all the time cuz they would be annoying but,
she will say something dumb or silly.. or something i disagree with. Like I think last time I did it she said named her dog a human name. And I said " ew wtf i think i heard Jeffery Dahmer did that.. you psycho" lol.. you know smiles and playful and I physically push her away gently. Like on the shoulder or leg if the leg or knee is closer to me.
Another girl didn't like tea and I said what kind of psycho doesn't like tea?? Sometimes she will say Me.. and I say yeah an I think Jeffery Dahmer. Or Hitler (Def not to a jew)
Or another one I do is like she says something and I just playfully tell her to leave and push her a little toward the door... then be like nah nah I'm kidding your actually not terrible company..