Had a pretty good interaction which led to some sexual tension and boom, all gone. Felt like I escalated pretty smoothly, but apparently not. Translation: (She showed me some pics and video’s turning her ass to the camera) Me: Trying to make me think about all the things I would do to you huh, turning your ass like that Her: Hahahahaa👀 Me: Spankable ass tho Her: GIF Me: Pic Her: Ohh fuck Me: Or does dat exceed your expectations? Her: I figured you’re like that Me: Is it a bad thing tho? Her: No I love it Me: My type of girl Her: So you’re dominant? Me: You’ll find out when my handprints are left on your ass and my hand is wrapped around your throat Her: Fuckk😩 Me: Maybe you’ll find out about the rest later Her: Oehh exciting Me: End of the week suited you best right? Her: Yes Me: What about Saturday? Her: That could work Me: Bring the sunshine with you Her: I am the sunshine Me: Bring that confidence with you Saturday Her: I most definitely will👀 Her: What are you up to (Next day) Me: I fell asleep Her: Ohh nice Me: If you already think that’s nice Her: Yeah I like sleeping Me: We’ll have to get you tired then this Saturday Her: Hahah oh? Me: Mhm Her: ? Me: You love to sleep, so if the vibe is right I’ll put you to work on Saturday Me: Get you nice and tired when you leave so you’ll be sleeping like a baby Her: What do you have in mind? Me: It’s a bit X-rated think you can handle it? Her: Luckily I’m almost 25 Her: But if you think we’re going to have sex on the 1st ‘date’ you got the wrong girl Me: Ah you’re the type that has a policy about sex beforehand? Her: Yep, that’s me Me: That’s a shame. I don’t like to have sex with just anybody anymore, got quite picky. But to have a policy about sex before it even happening, I’m not a big fan of. Takes out the “natural” vibe. Her: Well.. Me: Everybody’s different. Let’s just have a drink and prepare a homemade meal, no expectations Her: Yes I think so —————— Don’t really understand why the convo took a left turn like that

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Great man. Backed off a bit trying to social calibrate better. Next time don’t continue sexualizing when “the moment” passed? Or did you meant something else with handling it better

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Yea basically don’t be so one dimensional. You sexted. Things are looking good. It’s ok to drop it for a bit and just have “normal talk”. Take a look at some of my LRs. I sexualize, but I also talk about other shit

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