What happened here?

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Had a pretty good interaction which led to some sexual tension and boom, all gone. Felt like I escalated pretty smoothly, but apparently not.

Translation:
(She showed me some pics and video’s turning her ass to the camera)

Me: Trying to make me think about all the things I would do to you huh, turning your ass like that

Her: Hahahahaa👀

Me: Spankable ass tho

Her: GIF

Me: Pic

Her: Ohh fuck

Me: Or does dat exceed your expectations?

Her: I figured you’re like that

Me: Is it a bad thing tho?

Her: No I love it

Me: My type of girl

Her: So you’re dominant?

Me: You’ll find out when my handprints are left on your ass and my hand is wrapped around your throat

Her: Fuckk😩

Me: Maybe you’ll find out about the rest later

Her: Oehh exciting

Me: End of the week suited you best right?

Her: Yes

Me: What about Saturday?

Her: That could work

Me: Bring the sunshine with you

Her: I am the sunshine

Me: Bring that confidence with you Saturday

Her: I most definitely will👀
Her: What are you up to

(Next day)
Me: I fell asleep

Her: Ohh nice

Me: If you already think that’s nice

Her: Yeah I like sleeping

Me: We’ll have to get you tired then this Saturday

Her: Hahah oh?

Me: Mhm

Her: ?

Me: You love to sleep, so if the vibe is right I’ll put you to work on Saturday
Me: Get you nice and tired when you leave so you’ll be sleeping like a baby

Her: What do you have in mind?

Me: It’s a bit X-rated think you can handle it?

Her: Luckily I’m almost 25
Her: But if you think we’re going to have sex on the 1st ‘date’ you got the wrong girl

Me: Ah you’re the type that has a policy about sex beforehand?

Her: Yep, that’s me

Me: That’s a shame. I don’t like to have sex with just anybody anymore, got quite picky. But to have a policy about sex before it even happening, I’m not a big fan of. Takes out the “natural” vibe.

Her: Well..

Me: Everybody’s different. Let’s just have a drink and prepare a homemade meal, no expectations

Her: Yes I think so
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Don’t really understand why the convo took a left turn like that

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avilench . Avatar

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Great man. Backed off a bit trying to social calibrate better. Next time don’t continue sexualizing when “the moment” passed? Or did you meant something else with handling it better

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avilench . Avatar

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Yea basically don’t be so one dimensional. You sexted. Things are looking good. It’s ok to drop it for a bit and just have “normal talk”. Take a look at some of my LRs. I sexualize, but I also talk about other shit

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