What happened here?
Had a pretty good interaction which led to some sexual tension and boom, all gone. Felt like I escalated pretty smoothly, but apparently not.
Translation:
(She showed me some pics and video’s turning her ass to the camera)
Me: Trying to make me think about all the things I would do to you huh, turning your ass like that
Her: Hahahahaa👀
Me: Spankable ass tho
Her: GIF
Me: Pic
Her: Ohh fuck
Me: Or does dat exceed your expectations?
Her: I figured you’re like that
Me: Is it a bad thing tho?
Her: No I love it
Me: My type of girl
Her: So you’re dominant?
Me: You’ll find out when my handprints are left on your ass and my hand is wrapped around your throat
Her: Fuckk😩
Me: Maybe you’ll find out about the rest later
Her: Oehh exciting
Me: End of the week suited you best right?
Her: Yes
Me: What about Saturday?
Her: That could work
Me: Bring the sunshine with you
Her: I am the sunshine
Me: Bring that confidence with you Saturday
Her: I most definitely will👀
Her: What are you up to
(Next day)
Me: I fell asleep
Her: Ohh nice
Me: If you already think that’s nice
Her: Yeah I like sleeping
Me: We’ll have to get you tired then this Saturday
Her: Hahah oh?
Me: Mhm
Her: ?
Me: You love to sleep, so if the vibe is right I’ll put you to work on Saturday
Me: Get you nice and tired when you leave so you’ll be sleeping like a baby
Her: What do you have in mind?
Me: It’s a bit X-rated think you can handle it?
Her: Luckily I’m almost 25
Her: But if you think we’re going to have sex on the 1st ‘date’ you got the wrong girl
Me: Ah you’re the type that has a policy about sex beforehand?
Her: Yep, that’s me
Me: That’s a shame. I don’t like to have sex with just anybody anymore, got quite picky. But to have a policy about sex before it even happening, I’m not a big fan of. Takes out the “natural” vibe.
Her: Well..
Me: Everybody’s different. Let’s just have a drink and prepare a homemade meal, no expectations
Her: Yes I think so
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Don’t really understand why the convo took a left turn like that






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Great man. Backed off a bit trying to social calibrate better. Next time don’t continue sexualizing when “the moment” passed? Or did you meant something else with handling it better
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Yea basically don’t be so one dimensional. You sexted. Things are looking good. It’s ok to drop it for a bit and just have “normal talk”. Take a look at some of my LRs. I sexualize, but I also talk about other shit