For months I hid the fact that I have kids on my profiles but usually first dates would go well at first, then went to complete shit after the women found out I had kids. So now I have "have kids" on my profiles; I'd rather lose the women up front and not match then to waste time on dates that aren't going to go anywhere. So anyways, this chick matched with me and then later looked at my profile again and saw the "has kids". What would be a good response to the attachment -- I feel like making a joke about it but it seems to be a real hold-up and probably dealbreaker for her. So joking probably isn't the best route. I figure I probably lost her already but it would be good to bounce this off of you guys for future reference