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A girl recently ghosted me after she was showing so much interest but she spontaneously asked me what I was up to and asked me to meet up with her while she was with her friend. I didn't want to meet her spontaneously with her friend. She seemed mad I didn't show up so she's punishing me by not replying to my last text. What could I have changed in the convo to make it better and how do I revive this condo from here?
Her: What are you doing?
Me: At the gym. Getting jacked for our romantic date. You?
Her: Im chillin with a friend. If you wanna join please come
Me: Not sure when I am going to finish. I don't want to keep uyou waiting. Lets meet another night
Her: Sure, im just chillin here with my friend. Im not waiting but just tell me when your done?
Me: Sure. What are your plans tomorrow?
Her:Hmm, just gonna stay home and rest i guess...
Me: Lets meet tomorrow then. Feel spontaenous?
no reply
sent text 24 hours later
"And the best texter award goes to..."
No read or response after this.
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I don't think she is "punishing you" for not meeting up with her and her friend. I honestly don't think she understood your last text. Adding a "Feel spontaneous?" doesn't make sense if you're trying to meet up the next day. So I think that she just didn't know how to respond to the second to the last text. And then you hit her with a takeaway text and she was like "Meh"
Also, don't be afraid to give the real reason why you don't want to be a third wheel. Next time you can say something like "Appreciate the offer. But I wanna hangout with you and not you and your friend"