So I Met this real hot girl through IG she DM my puppies page and things just escalated very quick all is going good for now. Im currently not in the UK so the hook up is pending but when Im back she’s going away for a month. I feel like the conversation will die because Im getting fed up of having to speak to her daily, I try avoid her as much as possible then she hits me up and reminds me to message her. Im far from a needy type, I want to fuck her because shes what Id label as my ideal, so I don’t want to lose the chance but then again without seeing her I don’t want to be texting her like some bitch. At this point Im lost on what I should do and I feel the conversation is dieing both ways very slowly. ANY ADVICE WOULD BE APPRECIATED!
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I think you're over thinking this. Get a second opinion from someone else on here, they tell you the same thing, but they may give you some better advice.
I would just slow down on the amount of texts you send. If your still in her Insta DMs, remember not to open them cause they'll tell her you opened them.
Also don't be afraid for the conversation to die. You can always slide up on her Instagram story or just say "hey what's up" to pick up the conversation again
Also I wouldnt put all your eggs in one basket here too. You should still be texting other women on dating apps and what not.
Lastly, when the timing lines up you may still have to get her to reinvest.
I know Alex has a video where he was in a similar situation (go and find it)
I don't remember exactly what happened but I think she was out of town and he was in Jersey and after a month or so he hit her up again, but he did make sure to rebuild the investment first before going for the meet up
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Yeah its slowing down now, but it changes shes instant aswell. My plans to ignore her today. Then when she hits me up again Im just gna draw the line with her expectations until she sees me. So I don’t have to keep this up how ever much she wants me to, because this is gna lead to the whole thing just being a waste of time.