I met this girl around a year ago. She was very eager to meet so we went on two dates, within a couple of weeks. On the first date, we went around my hometown got some ice-cream and just had fun. The second date, was at my place, where after some foreplay we hooked up. Now after this date I went on a vacation for about two weeks, but we still texted and teased the idea of a third date. But here comes the terrible closing. Now at this time, I didn't know shit about "text game", so my idea of closing was just to see if the girl was open to it (which is good, but later I got sloppy and didn’t do it) and then just immediately jump to the hard close without checking with the girls schedule. But anyway, I tried closing her three times. Once in July, where I just said that she could come over on Friday, and she replied that she was busy that day, and I just said "Aight". Next time was around late August, where I basically wrote the same thing, and she wrote back that she would text me if she could. Third time was early September where I texted, right where I left off after the second attempt: "Hey --- Can i count on seeing you next Friday at ---?". She told me that she probably couldn't do Friday. Now at this point, you could tell by the way she texted me, that she had sensed my weakness and lost attraction. (Side note, before all the bad closing attempts she would send heart emojizz and all that, saying good morning and that she missed me.) And that’s where the screenshots at the bottom pick up. I try a very lengthy and soft close, she kinda bites, but not really. And yeah. Since then (about half a year ago) I haven’t texted her. So, bottom line, girl had very high attraction, i fucked it up with terrible closing. Now I ask of you Alex, is there anything I can do to salvage this? And if there is, please tell me via. Direct msg, I think it’s pretty obvious I need some closure on this lol. But anyway, if you read all this, I wish the best Jason
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Hey guys So, if you want some context to this post, read my last post. But in summary, I meet a hot tinder girl in July, we hooked up, and I then wait too long to close. When I get around to closing her interest is much less, and on top of that, I was terrible at closing. I personally don’t think I can save this convo, other than just living my life and posting IG stories of it and hoping for the best. But if you do have a suggestion, I’d love to hear them. Have a good day. (Oh yeah, and I translated the text since we were texting in Danish)
Meet a hot asian on Tinder a few months back. We went on two dates in total, the first one out in town and the other back at my place where we hooked-up. I then went on a vacation which lasted about 2 weeks, where we still talked and texted each other. (Oh yeah and my text game was dogshit at this time as well, so it could’ve played into it. I did thankfully keep it kind of sexual). Then after a few days of being home I tried closing her immediately out of nowhere by saying “You can come out here on Friday, if you can?”, which if you have seen one PWF video, you know is terrible way to close (not soft closing, finding a date and that). 3 weeks later we talked a little, and I again tried closing by saying “You can come over this Saturday if you’re interested” like she was some dog, that had to follow MY schedule. She said she’d text me if she could. Never texted (Obviously). So yeah, I try the same approach a week later, where she answers and says that she can’t. I then text her “Text me when your schedule frees up a little”. Doesn’t respond But that’s not the end. No, no, no. I then after a whole month send her this long text, asking her how it’s going and saying that I’d like to get in contact with her again. She responds that she had been a little busy, and that we had fun together so that she would like to stay in contact. I then ask her if she could maybe find a date we could get together (Like a fucking pussy), and she replies with “Sure though I’m quite busy this week”. I then texted her “Yeah sure just text when you’ve got time, no rush”. Doesn’t respond. A month later I AGAIN tried to close IMMEDEATELY by saying “Hey --- Id still love to see you, but this is the last time I’m asking. What do you say we meet sometime next week?”. She response with “It depends. You know with corona and all. But let’s see.” And I, brilliantly, without knowing how to set/change a frame, or dig deeper to find the real issue, respond with “Okay”. As you can see, I made shit ton of mistakes. Not being able to close properly Just simply taking too long to try closing Not knowing how to set a good frame And just overall bad text game This all happened about 1 month ago (Around the time I started watching PWF), and my question to you would be, if this is somehow salvageable? I mean I obviously over-invested way too much. So, I honestly don’t really know where to take it from here. But thanks for reading this, any recommendations/advice would be very much appreciated.
