had a girl come straight over and banged her a few times, both with a condom. first time was normal bunch of cum in the condom. second time wasn't much there, came inside with the condom on. i flushed it right after so idk if it broke. she said she wasnt ovulating and was supposed to get period in a few days so was prob fine, but she didn't want to tkae a plan b and wasnt on birth control. it's been a week and i texted her if she got the period, which she didnt yet but said it was normal so far. she seems cooperative, she comes from a wealthy family in china and went to an expensive private college and just graduated. she knows i have some new money but i dont think she'd try to trap me given her background. am i fucked? and how do i handle if she is pregnant so she aborts it?
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I was backstage at my friend's dj set on a rooftop in nyc. There was this Korean chick from korea I think in her early 30s who happened to start standing next to me -- it was pretty empty, so it seemed like she wanted me to appraoch. I talked to her for a bit and got her number, then texted her after. It seemed flirty to me based on the vibe, but i didnt go more direct than "are you a model". is this actually a friendzone? or just some shit asian chicks do
Have matched with this girl a couple times. First time she responded. She's a pretty cute asian chick. What do I say lol?
Went on a house date with this girl but she was super shy and didn't wanna even kiss at my place even though she seemed dtf over text and over call. We just walked around held hands and smoked weed. Thought it was done but she randomly hit me up a few days ago and so i asked her out again.  I'm thinking of saying "I could just pay for your ubers", but I don't even know if she'd bang me if she came over tbh. Seems like a waste of time
"are you always this bratty"? or "you dont wanna be my type?"
Should i just plan something on the app? or push for the number? If pushing for the number, what should I say?
She has 100k+ followers, so I don't want to move to IG. She's pretty hot but she doesn't have face photos on bumble, only on her IG. I don't think she's just looking for followers tho since she has so many already. She's in korea which is why i asked for kakaochat. What do i say here? I could just talk to her on IG but i dont have posts on it and I was using AI photos.
The past couple months whenever I got out with a chick, most of the time when she's back at my place (either she came striahgt over or pulled from public), she does not close. It's like 20% close rate max.  The other night, I went out with a chick in public and after around an hour and a half or so got her to come back to mine. I was touching her leg during the wine, but didn't hold her hand or kiss her at all. When we got back to mine, she wanted a pretty thorough tour of the place, and then she didn't sit on the bed but rather on a chair facing towards me next to the bed (where I sat). We talked for another 15ish minutes before she turned the chair towards me for looking at something on my phone, then another 20-30ish minutes go by before I try to kiss her the first time. Then we kiss again a few minutes later, and I say she should come on the bed. She sits right next to me, and then we make out again, but she ends it this time and I think goes to the bathroom. I go to the bathroom after, and then she's standing next to the heater instead of sitting on the bed and she's got her purse on. I wrap her from the front and we're kidna just hugging, then she turns around and im like grinding on her, but then I think she says she's gonna leave because it's getting late, and I didn't try to stop her. I couldn't kiss her again before she left, she wouldn't really let me. I also tried setting up a second date, and she agreed to the concept of the date, but when I tried setting logistics she said "she had to think about it" like what her vibe was about me. and then she just kinda hugged me when I walked her out. Then she was clearly uninterested after she left. I think in this scenario, I needed to be more dominant and push harder for the close. I think this girl in particular needed to be closed on the first date. There have been similar situations in the past. It's just really frustrating when I do all that work and then at the last step I don't get there and it doesn't work out.  During this date, she was constantly trying to get me to qualify myself to her and being pretty annoying/bratty but not actually a brat, just like "sassy", I found it annoying. I don't think I could seriously date her, which is why I'm annoyed I didn't at least get to bang her. or be the one to reject her.  It's getting so mundane. I either just want a girlfriend or I want getting laid to be extremely easy, cuz getting rejected is fucking annoying lol.
There's a girl on Raya who I can tell from her IG was active on it within the last month, but idk if she'll see my like since she might not be active every day and Raya's kinda hard to use. She has 100k+ followers -- we have one mutual, another 200k+ follower girl she goes to school with who I used to hook up with. My IG is private and has \<1k followers though, so I assume if I follow / DM her she won't see it. Should I try emailing her? Or should I just try IG first?
