Hey man, thanks for responding.
By the way, I am not referring to any specific girl, but to give an example, I just met a girl about 3 weeks or so ago in a class. We have not built a set frame, and I think this is the window of time I have before I solidify in her mind what kind of person I am to her; however, in our conversations, we have mostly had logical conversations on getting to know each other and I have tried to make our conversations fun from time to time mainly by being a little goofy, but not to the extent that I am flirting with her. One thing that I think I have done better is that ever since I got her number I have used the "we" frame to make our conversations more about us both doing things together.
Something I want to mention as well is that in my mind I am planning on making her more of a friend to me first before I explore anything more since we have been seeing each other in a class at least once a week, but I am not sure that if ever I do want to get to something more it will all already be set in a friendly frame and make it very hard to get to a more intimate frame.
So, what I am trying to do is, I am trying to set a frame that she may see me as potential and respects me as such even though we may not ever end up doing anything. I want to be able to build that comfort level and have that more intimate dynamic if I ever want to exercise that option in the future, if that makes sense

Hey man, thanks for the response. I was able to get back on the "groove" of things. The reason that I felt that way is that I stopped the work, meaning I wasn't texting or messaging any girl for a couple of days and just kept to myself and got rusty and lost my sense of abundance for a bit. I just started messaging a bunch of girls on dating apps and some that I have their number to get off the scarcity mindset and get me back in my flirty mode. It is true when they say Action cures fear, but in this case, Action cures scarcity.

I think it has to do with me not being very excited in my current season in life and this affects my "flirty" side if you will. When I feel like this I usually go back to what is comfortable to me in conversation and get in logical conversations; if I do try to get flirty in this frame I feel like I am trying too hard and I end up not doing anything until I get back to a more exciting frame of mind.
It's not like when I am in the "zone", when flirting comes out naturally and without thinking it twice, I get numbers one after the other when I am in this frame/mindset and conversation is fun and easy