Comments by Mb Swole
Joined 2y agoFlirting is generally how the opposite sex builds relationships with each other so her logic is pretty flawed
She’s using past experiences where flirting led to sex as a guide.
I’d say either completely disregard the idea you just want to smash by making her understand there is no pressure at all to do anything your just tryna vibe with her.
Or take the risky approach and spin how she’s feeling afraid of being used because your flirting by saying something like “would you still feel that way if the last guy that flirted with you was still with you? Me flirting doesn’t mean a one night stand”
I don’t think it’s that bad, but thoughts like that you keep to yourself unless you’re going somewhere with it.
So now I suggest either going somewhere with it, “So what else does cool girl get up to” (I wouldn’t use that just an example) , or recalibrating to something else
It was quite sexually charged at the beggining with her acting bratty and me telling her how I’d treat a brat. Over the course of a few months it then shifted to her finally voicing a concern of why talk about sex so straight up
The last voice note she responded too, I said drop your number or drop some more bs assumptions
She said what she said
Do you think the persistence has been too needy? It’s been 6 months almost and if I knew they’re no chance I wouldn’t have a problem dropping it. But it seems like I’m one exchange away from a phone call after all this time

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Idk what the stereotype thing is about but if you actually have something to say then only tell when you have compliance.
Regardless compliance is the goal even if you have nothing to say
And you should try and find a way out of that strange men category and into a potential frame. I’d probably fix that first