Yeah.......I mean what else does she expect to happen.......lol.....she'll deal with it as she wants.

z

Imo, you don't have to do anything to keep a 40 yr old interested...lol. I mean, at that age they're actually pretty desperate to hook up/have sex with someone. She's probably playing games to keep you on the hook........lol.......And fwiw, maybe you should set your sights on younger women.......and I'd wait a few days b4 re-connecting.

z

The MOST important thing is to not think about/focus on it. It's no big deal if you don't get hard sometimes. I mean Zero thought about it....lol. Totally natural. And if you DO get hard at times, morning wood etc, then there is nothing physically wrong.......fwiw.

And an erection occurs when blood flows into the penis....like a gate opening to let blood in.......that's it. There's no extra pressure or anything that makes it happen.

z

z

Another trick is to focus exclusively on one aspect of her body that you find sexy. Tit, ass, inner thigh, clavicle, lips, etc. Just focus on that one thing.

z

Also. Stop masturbating totally. Only get off when having sex........

z

Next time tell her that sometimes he's shy.......and you think maybe he needs a kiss.......maybe some head would help get you hard?

PS. Make sure you're watching her give it.
PPS. How do you make a hormone..............don't pay her......lol

z

Get the room for yourself first.....have dinner......then later take her with you to the room?....or do they check every fucking couple that comes in the fucking door?.....lol
Maybe be carrying a briefcase? Then you could say it's your secretary and you need a quiet place to work on a big fucking project for your company.

Getting the room first also has the advantage that you can get it ready for her.....music playing......incense.......etc.

I have a nice leather laptop case with extra pockets. I got everything in there with the laptop. Hair brush, toothpaste/brush, extra toothbrush for her, bluetooth speaker, condoms, Pjur lotion, incense, mini bottles of booze, etc etc.

You could tell her you want to show her some cool pictures on your laptop while you're out.....excuse to go to the room......

z

In person: Hi, can I meet you real quick?
She says 'what'
Oh I just wanted to meet you..what's your name, I'm xxxx..and shake her hand....keep holding it while she says her name....ask her how she spells it....etc.
Credit to: John Anthony.

Online:

1. When I was little girls hated when I pulled their hair........funny how some things change. (Andy from Kill Your Inner Loser).
2. I'm looking for a good girl, or a bad girl who needs to be disciplined. (Andy from Kill Your Inner Loser)
3. When I was in third grade I knew a girl named xxxxxx. I used to pull her hair and steal her crayons. (Forgot where I got this)
4. Why is it always the guy who has to come up with something witty and clever to say? That's gender inequality....lol
5. You know, I noticed something strange in one of your photos. (almost guaranteed to get a response)
6. So I guess we're dating now.
7. Hey 'name' you know whats interesting about your pictures?
8. Tell me a story.

Oh.......and you can send this to all your old ones that never responded:

It's OVER. We're getting a Divorce.....and I'm keeping the fucking dog.

z

Looks like she's German.....fucking German police are cunts.......lol.......got everybody scairt....

z

Most........not all......lol........z