Not stuck, just looking for optimization. "How do you feel about joining me on my romantic balcony and sharing a bottle?" has the advantage of presenting it as a question, shows that I care about what she thinks, and adds the intimacy value of "sharing" it. You don't necessarily share a bottle of whiskey so it's kind of odd to re phrase it in that way (I've tried and usually the reaction is shock "a whole bottle?!") and have the same impact. Also since she's into hard liquor that indicates that she's a different type of girl so I thought possibly there is a more suggestive, flirtatious way of presenting it that is more optimal and already put through its rigors by someone like you or J Anthony.

Perfect. I almost fucked it up, but this ended up working: "I understand. We owe it to ourselves to see this through. How about you come over, no expectations. We'll have a low-key meet up and whatever happens happens."

Dismiss it and reframe.

"Lol. Hey, I understand busy. I'm busy too. But I'm sure that we can both make a few hours for each other if we really wanted to."

Jesus fucking Christ. Did I hurt your feelings? Oh... I'm sorry. Tell me again EXACTLY how to give you free advice? That makes me want to help you more.

If you don't understand how constructive that is, I don't know what to tell you. You look like you'd try to sell me bibles. You have zero edge.

You're a walking talking Ned Flanders. When they read 'dominant' with those pics they literally laugh out loud.

Nothing. Don't draw attention to what you perceive as a negative. You have NO idea what's going on in her head. 2 hrs... she may have enjoyed it. You may THINK she didn't... but you don't truly know. But as soon as you draw attention to being a bad experience, it will cement it in her head as a bad experience, and she will feel like shit about it. Just learn from your poor form and be better next time. Sounds like you're both very young... so every experience is a learning experience. Some advice, the best position for a woman to cum is her on top, grinding her entire pussy on you with your cock fully in her (key word grinding, not bouncing on it). The best position for a man to cum is her flat on her stomach, legs together, you on top (you can vary your angle and leg position based on muscle fatigue in many different ways without stopping).

Absolutely agree with this. I guess for me, and most men that would benefit from this, the filtering is more based on weather she will fuck on the 1st/2nd date or not. I don't think that this strategy is the way to go for average men in general. This is really a top 10% sort out strategy slash discussion. I generally line up one or two a day. So far I'm finding that a mix of normalcy, combined with an expression that you are dominant and seeking something sexual has been a successful strategy for me. Anything more direct than that has a negative overall effect, any details other than that has a negative overall effect, ambiguity works in your favor. Perhaps others have had a different experience, but I'd love to hear from others.

In my experience, this never works out. The longer things drag on the more likely she is to lose interest or meet some other dude. You will 100% not meet this girl at the end of April. Make it happen now, or it will never happen. You're already fighting an uphill battle here.

"I’m busy too. But I’m sure we could both find a few hours if we actually wanted to."
"We're all busy... but we make time for the things that we want."

Delete the 2nd, 3rd, & 5th pic.