The way I see it, your opener was too long, too much investment and too many compliments,
I sometimes do the compliment opener, but you only pick one thing, my most used ones atm are "Swiped right for cute smile ;-)" or insert "sexy tattoo" instead of the cute smile. Sometimes I also use "Those eyes.. I might be getting into trouble here ;-)"

So far those have around a 50% response rate and have so far only given positive responses I could easily transition. The important thing you have to note is, that these work for me because they are congruent to me. It's the same with the suggestions in the product. Those weren't congruent to me, so I had to tweak them while still remembering the core concepts in the blueprint.

• Long story short, you're forgetting the core concepts of the blueprint.

And for the last message. What's happening is, she getting you reactive to her. When she says "that feels sexist" I'd probably just double down on it for fun.

I think it's hard to salvage, but I'd say your options are currently to wait a couple days and then hit her with one of the memes or just completely start a new thread like "how's your sunday funday?" maybe with the gosling meme accompanying it. Or you could use a takeaway "always this talkative?", maybe even make a joke about the not reading thing she said. Just remember, it has to be congruent for you, so whichever of these you pick, you yourself have to mean it, feel it and actually think is funny to you.

Hope it helps!

With that amount of approaches it seems like there's something off about your approach and initial game.. I would suggest using the MasterMind to get some feedback on profile + textgame.
I uploaded like 3-4 convos and they gave me so many ideas and solid explanations behind the thought process that the missing links I had finally clicked and now it's easy. You have to get to a point where you can just "feel" when she is ready to be closed and when she is not, based on her responses and her profile.

If you have any specific questions on where u normally get stuck on texts I can try my best to help. Same for the approach, if you need tips, you'd have to tell me how you approach.

For the virgin thing if you have v2 of the product, check the date and sex tips for how to physically escalate and then go watch the 2 podcasts Alex did with Stirling Cooper on youtube. Those tips were literally all I needed for the confidence to know I would be a better lay than 90% of the guys she had been with anyway, nomatter my prior experience. So once that clicked my insecurities around this went away and after trying out the tips and seeing the reactions basically unfolding like clockwork exactly as they explained it massively boosted my confidence.

Hope it helps bro!

Just screen them out manually without mentioning anything in your bio. You can usually tell.

When it comes to trans, luckily a lot of them are atleast nice enough to say it in their bio. Otherwise you can usually see it in the pictures, look for broad shoulders and neck + distinct masculine facial structures.
For prostitutes, it's easy, if they say things like "you know what to do" or "x amount of roses to be with me" along with mainly just pics showing of their body in lingerie or bikinis.

• the amount of roses is usd to get her basically.
  And gays should be pretty obvious to spot xD

The simple solution is identifying and just not swiping right on those things and if u accidentally do, just unmatch without opening them.

Good points. Yeah we did talk about her coming over to judge my drinks, so trying to get her straight to my place this time to make it easier to escalate.

Ah that's brilliant, thanks for the advice, I'll definitely give that a shot if I actually get her out again! I was also thinking that if I do get her our I HAVE to go for the kiss even if it doesn't feel right at all, cause I will 100% not get another shot, and I'm also pretty sure I'd have to atleast attempt to escalate it into sex.

Not sure if escalating straight to sex after whimping out the first time is possible tho since she probably will be giving a lot of LMR since I set more of a "dating" frame than a "FWB" frame by not doing anything last time, hopefully we'll see.

Thanks Alex, I did end up doing that aswell.
Went for setting up the date after a bit of banter and she sent this text:

"I hope my assignment was good, but I have a tendency to get nervous whether what I did was good enough (sweating emoji) - My calendar is pretty booked at the moment, but I'll tell you if there's an opening (regular smiley)"

So I went with: "So the perfectionist comes out huh (winky face) - All good, I'm away on a trip from thursday to monday anyway"

Do I reengage after a week or do I just keep her warm with banter until we have time to meet (or I figure out if she's still interested or not)?
I did think about chugging in the takeaway you mentioned above, just not sure if she would end up taking that negatively and ending it there.

Yeah I see what you mean. I tend to just find a focus point to look at and try to not think of the camera, but maybe the effort in the focus point is what makes it seem so posed. Yeah I guess I'll just have to keep spamming photos and eventually I'll get something really good. Thanks!

alright, thanks mate!

Update... She just wrote back and continued from where we left of. I do still find it hard to believe she was that busy for 4 days, so guessing attraction dropped... But considering she hasn't ghosted or actively written me off I'm guessing I still have a shot. You think I'm reading the situation right?
So now the question is, do I write what u wrote or just continue the natural flow of the convo and push for 2nd date asap to escalate things properly this time?

Aaaand here's the old ones for reference + the deadlift one.