It all comes down to how much the girl sees value in you. If you have high SMV like Jeff Powell, Nolan Chen, Chris Wilde, Alex V, hell yeah! Rule of thumb is you don't need to build more value and set up explicit frames unless you're feeling lazy af and you do this as a way of screening. If, just if! You don't have a high SMV like them, there's two ways of building value. Being witty. Engaging, Seeking investment, under the radar sexualizing but subtly setting up the frames. OR You show some sexual authority. Cold reading her as being submissive. Knowing exactly what she likes. Knowing what makes her tick. But still doing it very calibrated. Making her curious about what your junk can bring for her trunk. Still requires a lot of back and forth. Definitely drawing it out rather than going for the soft close too early in such occasions. I've taken over multiple guy's tinders with ranging SMV's and developed my textgame. One's original style of textgame won't apply to everyone else. It's best to come up with your own style. But, that takes time and extreme amounts of practice. Until then, use routines. But, be smart about it. Try gaining information from the girl's pictures and bio. Read her like a book. Get her curious how you can tell things about her effortlessly. The key essence is to have the right balance. Don't be too witty. or wordy and get stuck there. Don't go overtly sexual if she shows even a little bit of resistance. The obvious easy way is to become a high SMV man. But until then, try to demonstrate sexual prowess. If you can uptalk your oral skills, foreplay aspects (things which aren't easily available to these girls. After demonstrating that, if you can sext her, even better! If there are leads you lose after explicitly sexting and setting frames, booty massage and oral orgasms and all that stuff, if you're not losing it half way, you are only losing them because there's a hidden emotional concern you are not addressing. Warmest Regards, IndianPE.