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Update about the last post: In my last post there was this girl on my college’s woman basketball team and I had got her number. Well, I texted her and eventually I found her Snapchat and she friend zoned me on Snapchat. She told me, “I’m still caught up on my ex” and “We can still be friends.” I watched videos on how to escape the friend zone and some guys in the cafeteria also helped me. We kept texting back and forth until she left me on delivered. In the videos it said to get out of the friend zone you have to make space and not contact her until she starts wondering about you. In the cafeteria, the guys wanted to help me and one of them had screenshot the chat while I was on opened. You know how on Snapchat it lets you know if someone screenshots your shit. I thought it was going to fuck shit up but it made her text back, she asked why I screenshot the chat. I know this because another guy showed me how to slowly use your finger to see the message without being seen as opened on her end. So basically the tables turned and I left her on delivered like she did me. She’s been on delivered for a day so far. Today during class she was laughing at my jokes as usual, her face was turning red and she was trying to start conversations with me. I asked everyone if they went deer hunting for Thanksgiving except for her and she said, “you didn’t ask me.” However, after class she asked me why I didn’t text her back and I told her the same exact two words she told me when I asked that question last time in class, “I DID.” I’m determined that I’m going to get out of the friend zone. I’m going to update you guys again maybe even with a picture of us together if we meet up. Now about this post: Now I’m going to give you a little context about the screenshots below. So there was this girl from my Public Speaking class and I told her at lunch in the cafeteria that I saw her Instagram page. I think it was maybe on explore page or something, I don’t remember. She asked me if I followed her, I said no and she called me a stalker. A few minutes later I followed her Instagram page while she was on her phone and she called me weird. So that’s why I opened her on Instagram with “Mean Ass” because I called her mean in person after she called me weird. I remember in one of Alex’s videos he either said that there are two types of weird or two types of nerds but I remember him saying that the two types were sexy and creepy so that’s what I asked her. I know it’s not the creepy type of weird when she said weird isn’t bad but she said I’m not the sexy type either so I gave her comment the 🤨 emoji. When she said no, I gave her a joke in the present/gift/surprise animation and she reacted to it with a laughing emoji. After a while I reengaged with a video, I know you can’t see the video but that day we were in class while she was on her phone and she found out that Young Dolph died and showed it to me. So I sent her a song by Young Dolph called Talking to My Scale saying, “This is my favorite Young Dolph Song” so that’s why she said “I only know preach.” I teased her about sending me a heart eye emoji, she probably meant it, I personally feel like she has some types of feelings about me trying to hide them. Sometimes I think she’s attractive because of her body, she has a fat ass but at the same time I don’t really know if I’m attracted to her. She’s always on her phone but she’s never active on Instagram, let me know if there’s something I should text or say to her in person.

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There is this girl that I met from class. She would always laugh at my jokes until her face turn red in class so I took as a guess that she was interested. I asked her if she had a boyfriend and asked her if the dude sitting next to her was her boyfriend because I would see them walking together all the time. Short story short, I asked her for her number and she said no. Some dude behind me took my phone and put his number in with heart eye emojis by his name in the contacts as a joke. We kept talking and I held my phone out again and she took a picture of herself with my phone then gave me her number. She’s kind of taller than me, she’s on the basketball team and I went to her last basketball game to support her while being loud cheering for the team. I know that sounds simpish almost. We talked about it today, she was laughing when she told me that she saw me at the game cheering. I told everyone she made a three pointer even though she didn’t. The last thing I said to her, I asked why she didn’t text me back and she said that she did and I respond said that she was lying. In a playful way though, I didn’t sound butt hurt or upset. @Indian PE or Alex please tell me how to respond. It hasn’t been week since we texted each other.

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For anyone that saw my last post, there was this Jessica girl that ghosted me and flaked on our last date. I have no idea on how to respond. I shouldn’t have responded at all but didn’t know she would text back @avilench . what do you think?

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So there was this girl I matched with on Tinder two weeks ago. We were supposed to meet at my dorm two Thursdays ago on November 4th, I believe it was two nights if I remember before Thursday that she didn’t text me back after I said, “I’d rather see it in person😩” and I followed back on the morning the meet up was supposed to happen with, “Are we still meeting each other today?” I think the place where she is to where I am is like a 2 hour or a 1 hour drive. It’s been two weeks after it and it seems like she unmatched me on Tinder. Did she straight up just flake or ghost me? Tell me what I did wrong or what happened. What did I do that caused this reaction. What should I do next? @avilench .@Indian PE

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I texted her back because I didn’t get a response on my post about her, but this is the response that I got from her. Tell me anything that I could’ve done better or what to do next time I come across another woman like her.

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Hey, I’m 18 years old in college and I met this woman on Snapchat. We talked for a little bit, I got to know her for a little bit because it’s not like any other app like Tinder or Instagram where you see her age, name, and where she’s from upfront. I haven’t met her, I just met her on Snapchat. She’s 27 years old with a son, we haven’t gotten flirtatious yet but I’m trying to build to get to that point. I seem to see similar situations with other men on this app about trying to get older women. I can’t screenshot our messages because she will know but it seems like just the exact same thing with me and any other woman that’s older. I told her my age and she called me a baby and I responded with, “If I’m a baby, then what does that makes you.” She responded with, “I’m not a baby too, that was nice but you tried” and I responded again with, “If you’re not a baby, does that make you a cougar then?” She said, “No, I’m not into younger guys?” I said, “Have you tried them before?” She responded with, “No, and I’m not going to try them.” My last response was, “If you might think that a younger guy can make you feel young then I can make you feel better than older” or something along those lines. It seems pretty hard, I’ve been watching a lot of Playing With Fire’s videos on how to text bratty girls and I’ve been trying to follow those rules. Let me know you guys advice for me, do I treat older women that say they don’t like younger guys like brats or is there something else that I’m not aware of? My next response will be, “I know what you want” and then I’ll respond with a, “You want a dominant man to take the lead and make shit happen” and after that I’ll say, “I can make that happen at any age” Let me know if you have any other text messages I can use as well. I’ll let you know how she responds if I get a comment under this post at the time I send one of those messages.

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