Comments by Phil Adams
Joined 5y ago3 Posts (-2), 7 Cmts (+3)
The biggest lesson I learned from Alex's videos on this topic is to avoid photos that look posed because they look unnatural at best and try-hard at worst. Some of these could be improved by you not looking at the camera, but still wouldn't be optimal because they still seem staged somewhat.
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When she swipes on you, she has no idea how you swiped on her, so no idea if you're making the first move or not. Once you can see the likes roll in, you're able to capitalize on it quick by swiping and getting the conversation going. If you swipe first, she might be waiting around for a bit which could be sub-optimal. I think that's the logic behind this tactic.
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Thought so. I'm trying it anyway because I'm interested to see what the algorithm does when you don't swipe at all. Seem to be getting some good likes now that I'm on gold.
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Take shots outdoors, especially with other people in the background, blurred out. Almost always looks natural. On the other hand, indoor shots almost always look staged.
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I think she's just being a bit firm with you as a test to see if you'll back down. I could be wrong. Maybe just say "I like the sound of Mistress Vix" with a winky face emoji and transition into something more playful

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That's the sort of humour I see a lot on female profiles. Seems very girly and not something I'd associate with an alpha male.