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Joined 5y agoOk makes sense.
Also interesting that it would be considered 0-100. Like I said it was a sexual profile and she asked me about it and what I do as well so I considered that a bit surprising.
But again, here to learn and stuff like this has happened in the past, so I need to learn about the sexualization way too early. I think maybe to play safe I might have to keep the sexualizing texts to POST meet up for the first time or during the actual meet up maybe. I have had otherwise good interactions go south a couple of times because of things like these.
Congratualtions man, fantastic LR. How long have you been practicing this now?
Btw does tagging work on these forums or no? If no then will have to end up making more threads each time just to get attention for a follow up.
Dude she's a bitch. For you I jist see you're overly invested but she doesn't seem worth it from the bare minimum she's sharing.
Really? Interesting, thanks for the advice! Will check out the vid
What's good man, I see where you are coming from and had some quick thoughts that may help you out.
- You're apparently having massive success and getting laid. Don't stress it. Appreciate and have gratitude for it, this is a sticking point for SO MANY. Including myself currently.
- Realize where your drive is coming from? Is it JUST for sex? Or is it a sort of validation you are seeking by closing more and more. I would have the same sort of thirst and chase for validation too. Heck I DO right now. My goal is similar to yours in fact. 1., I want to get my notch count to a 100 to prove to myself that an Indian guy (me specifically) from my background and genetics can do it. 2. Get 2-3 regular FWB and just rotate those. 3. Hope for a meaningful relationship coming out of all of these girls.
- I ALSO know that part of it is because of my background with my first girlfriend. She didn't love me nor did she have sex with me, and I am ashamed to say it but we were together for 3-5 years (on off). That insecurity and me feeling like a loser from then is one of the reasons for my thirst and the reason why I want to get the notch count and such out of the way. In doing so however I want to ENJOY the process. Not take it as some manic mission in life. So honestly, just journal your thoughts to see WHERE your drive for this external validation is coming from, and whether or not it will help you to get where you need to be in a state of happiness and content in your life.
A short example is the guy that got called out by Chris Cuomo on his new channel. The guy was like me/us, socially awkward guy with no chance with women. Then he started getting approached, then numbers, then lays, then threesomes until he is 1000+. But his thirst could never be quenched because the external validation from these women is NOT what he was seeking. It is is how insecurity and inability to accept himself that is the root cause of the issue here. Just an amazing example of when meditation, journalling and pondering your own thoughts can help you with understanding what you want and why you want it in life.

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Nah bro the owner of the dog was the one that took the pics. Amateur photographer himself.
Also really last one? The one in tge sports shoes with me and dog being further away from each other?
Interesting always had that one, please confirm this is tge one you're talking about
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