Would you go choose the best response to “I don’t think we’d mesh well” after sending selfie
301 Posts (+29), 265 Cmts (+27)
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I’m literally 1 year younger than her. She also asked me for pics twice after I got her number via bumble. She flaked twice at the last minute with “I feel a headache coming on”
How’s: “What exactly are your concerns” & if she doesn’t respond follow up with
“We were going to reschedule our meet up & then you randomly ghost. Idk if you got nervous or are maybe a bit inexperienced. I’m just curious what happened”
Let me know if you need more screenshots.
ANY & ALL feedback is greatly appreciated!
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8 Posts (+15), 334 Cmts (+93)
"is it because im ugly?"
try to get her to tell you the truth. almost never ever send selfies. unless they're battle tested with other girls but otherwise avoid at all costs.
301 Posts (+29), 265 Cmts (+27)
So say “is it because im ugly?” again? I already asked her “what makes you think we wouldn’t mesh well together” yesterday. Still no response.
8 Posts (+15), 334 Cmts (+93)
ah sorry didn’t see you had already asked that. at this point id probably repeat the question nothing to lose
8 Posts (+6), 31 Cmts (+11)
Move on dude, also asking “is it because I’m ugly” was the worst thing you did. Never ever say something like that. Its gives the impression that you’re not confident enough with yourself.
20 Posts (+44), 109 Cmts (+59)
Are your photos an actual representation of what you look like now? I’m overweight but I used to be a strong 7 so I don’t use old pics. If that’s not the problem just unmatch and don’t worry because some women are just not worth the time.
301 Posts (+29), 265 Cmts (+27)
My oldest photo is from about a year & a half ago (when I started working out). I’ve always been thin. She was a total practice girl. Now I know better for a girl that I actually really like.
I was going to say something like “I don’t use filters or makeup 🤷🏾♂️“ but that sounds really butthurt. I think unfollowing her & running through her friends via instagram my best move.
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20 Posts (+44), 109 Cmts (+59)
What’s your profile pic compared to what you sent her? He went from 70% to 0% pretty fast so I’m interested in knowing if that’s a factor or if something in her own life happened like meeting a 6’8” jacked dude who looks line 2001 High Jackman.
7 Posts (+0), 49 Cmts (+22)
You should post ur selfie and profile pics here, would be easier to judge the situation.
5 Posts (+1), 34 Cmts (+23)
If it’s right after you sent a selfie, she might have lost attraction because it was a bad picture. Ask her why she thinks you guys wouldn’t mesh well together. You have to dig on why she flaked so you can address it, then try and reschedule.