Hi Alex,
You gave me a rating of 5 in the looks department.
I spend 2 months in Medellin, Colombia. I approached 400+ girls in the streets and metro in Medellin. Messaged a lot of girls on the dating apps. However, I could not get laid. I was still depressed in Medellin like I was Toronto because I am not getting laid. I banged 3 prostitutes in Medellin due to cost.
When I came back to Toronto, I approach girls without fear. I noticed that my approach anxiety got minimized. So Medellin was not a waste of time. However, my depression is still there.
What Medellin taught me is that my SMV is low, social skills are shit, and my game (online +daygame) is shit. It also taught me that there is too many good looking masculine guys.
When I came back to Toronto, I noticed that I am getting likes in Bumble (which never happened in Medellin).
I am convinced that I am not good enough for Colombian girls. I look just like the local guys.
No girl in Medellin showed me interest. At least in Toronto, I got girls showing me interest but I had no balls to chase them.
I did not travel from 2010 to 2018. I stayed in my city Toronto throughout the period. I regret not travelling. I do not want any more regrets. I want to travel. Traveling is my passion. I do not want to have any more regrets. I want to travel the world. Who knows if I die tomorrow?
I also hate Toronto, People in Toronto cannot socialize for shit. I suprised how easy it is to make male friends in Colombia compare to this shithole. Canada is a shithole. Toronto is boring and not fun. I could not make friends here in Toronto. However, in Mexico and Colombia, I am suprised people love to socialize unlike this dump.
If I live in Toronto, I have to stay with my parents.
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Is it best to stay in Toronto, work on my body, my social skills, work on my SMV here for some months, develop my online game skills and daygame skills, and then go after foreign women? If I live in Toronto, I will have to live with mom because of costs. I will be able to get a sales job.
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I can get a teaching job abroad and I will be able to live by myself. However, there will be an issue with the language and my SMV is too low for foreign women. However, I hate teaching but teaching abroad will allow me to live in another country.
3, Related to question 1, how many months do I have to stay in Toronto? I need to travel as I did not travel from 2010 to 2018. Travelling is my mission.
Here is my Instagram so you can get an idea: https://www.instagram.com/adam_the_travel_dude/
