What do you say when she says she wants to get to know you more first?
Do you soft close and ask if she likes wine and then go for her schedule or ask “what do you want to know about me”? And how would you properly respond to when you tell her she seems like my type and she asks “How so?” Do i just list the qualities she has like what I said? She was qualifying herself on being adventurous 8 out of 10 and i said “my kind of girl” like in the screenshot
How should i continue the convo from here.. since all i could think of was “sounds good to me” what should I have said instead of this? and should I just wait until she texts me back since I don’t want to double text?
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I definetly would not have said “think I can bring it out in you?” You don’t want to phrase that as a question. Instead, I’d say “I have a feeling I’ll bring it out in you”. Sounds a lot more confident
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Good questions. She’s not actually asking you to list your qualities she’s just saying that in general. I literally would have responded with “If?” And have her back track and say “haha you know what I mean”
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At this point, i think you’re going to have to be the one to get this convo going again, just reingage with a good old Ryan gosling meme and pick up from there
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Today I started off with the ryan gosling meme what is your suggestions from here? Should I go for her schedule? I feel like I missed an opening when she said shes going out with friends to the bar and I could have invited her over after for wine but she just replied with “Lol that’s nice” which didn’t really give me any IOI’s to soft close.
This is the first time a girl says a guy was making excuses not to see her usually its the other way around.
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You can’t expect every girl to jump on that text. “Lol that’s nice” is a pretty average response.
At this point, I would just go for “Do you like wine” if you haven’t used that one already